On Life and Love After 50 Newsletter
Tom P. Blake November 13, 2015
When
I have time, I enjoy reading other blogs and websites that are related to or
somewhat related to the topics that we discuss in our newsletter. I enjoy
reading other peoples’ perspectives on life at 50+.
One
website and blog I’ve followed for years is the RetireEarlyLifestyle site,
where this week I read an article that piqued my interest. A woman named Pamela
(not the Pamela from last week’s newsletter) wrote to the publishers, Billy and
Akaisha Kaderli, who are experts at retiring early and living in foreign
countries. They started pursuing this lifestyle at age 38.
But, I want to say, the advice they provide is appropriate for anyone considering retiring overseas, regardless of age. I retired at 75, guess I don't fall into the "retire early" category, but I still enjoy reading their articles because they are about travel and so interesting.
In
the article, Pamela said, “I’ve reached financial independence and want to
retire early. There are so many more things I want to do with my life. I was
hoping to find a fella who wants to retire early also. Someone on the same
wavelength as me…”I know plenty of fellows who could retire early…but they
refuse to…
“My
question is: are there single fellas out there in the early retirement world? I
have visions of it being populated entirely by couples and I’ll forever be
doomed to being the fifth wheel, which is not a very appealing future.”
Pamela’s
question to Billy and Akaisha is similar to one I often hear: “Where are the available
men?” I felt the answers they provided to Pamela were very insightful.
They
said, “There are single men out in the Early Retirement, Financially
Independent world! They are traveling and living fulfilling lives and some of
them are looking for a like-minded travel companion.”
Billy
and Akaisha mentioned that some of those men complain that the single women
they know either do not want to travel or leave their kids for long periods of
time, or, aren’t adventurous enough, or, find travel is too expensive for them.
Billy
and Akaisha added, “…to find a traveler, one needs to get out there and travel!
You won’t find them at the country clubs or working in banks…These travelers
have already come to the conclusion that they want something else for their
lives and are ‘out there’ on the road, doing volunteer work, and having
adventures in foreign countries.”
Billy
and Akaisha also stated in the article that getting out there can be scary,
particularly for a woman, but it’s important for single people to pursue
activities that interest them, and to visit places that appeal to them, and
perhaps to do volunteer work where they will meet others who volunteer.
“If
you are doing activities that you love, chances are, this is the place you will
find a like-minded person to accompany you through life,” they said.
In
many articles I’ve read on the RetireEarlyLifestyle website, Billy and Akaisha often
point out that living in other countries can be much more affordable than
living in the United States.
I
realize that not everyone is financially independent enough to go off traveling
on their own or, to relocate to a foreign country. I realize there are lots of
older singles who are struggling financially.
But,
for others, if they could make their way to a country south of the border--Mexico
or Central America, for example--the cost of living could be dramatically less.
That
being said, in the last four paragraphs of Billy and Akaisha’s response to
Pamela, they delicately point out to her that when two people can share
finances, their ability to travel is enhanced. And they point out to her that
because she is financially independent, she might more easily meet a man while
traveling or relocating who is like-minded.
I
recommend that Champs read the entire article; the points that Billy and
Akaisha make are similar to the points I’ve stressed for 23 years about getting
off the couch and out of the house and involved in activities one enjoys.
True,
Billy and Akaisha are talking about retirement in foreign countries, which is
different than retiring and living in the USA, but many of the points they make
can be applied to singles’ situations, regardless of where they live. And I
particularly like the last paragraph of the article about not being stuck in a
relationship due to the fear of financial freedom.
This
is an excellent website to have on your reading list. You can sign up for their
newsletter for free. If you’ve ever had questions about retiring early
overseas, they are the experts. And, as I found out, they respond to email very
quickly.
Here
is the link to their website.
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